Exploring Happiness Across 3 Lifespans

Introduction

Happiness, often referred to as subjective well-being (SWB), evolves across the lifespan and is influenced by various genetic, environmental, social, and psychological factors. Positive psychology plays a key role in understanding these changes, with concepts like emotional regulation, gratitude, and social connections being central to sustaining well-being at different life stages.

Subjective Well-Being (SWB) is a concept central to positive psychology, SWB consists of-

Affective well-being- The balance of positive and negative emotions.
Cognitive well-being- Life satisfaction, an evaluation of one’s life circumstances (Diener, 1984).

Happiness can also be defined as a positive emotional state that arises when individuals feel satisfied with their life and experience frequent positive emotions, such as joy or contentment, and relatively few negative emotions. It reflects both emotional well-being and a cognitive evaluation of life satisfaction (Lyubomirsky et al., 2005).

Read More- What is Happiness?

Theories of Happiness

Hedonic Adaptation Theory or Set-Point Theory- it suggests that individuals have a relatively stable baseline or “set-point” of happiness, influenced largely by genetics. Life events—both positive (e.g., marriage, promotions) and negative (e.g., loss, illness)—cause temporary fluctuations in happiness, but over time, people tend to return to their baseline level of happiness. This theory emphasizes the idea that while external circumstances can temporarily change happiness, individuals naturally adapt and return to their set-point over time (Brickman & Campbell, 1971).
Authentic Happiness Theory- it was developed by Seligman and posits that true happiness arises from living a life that fulfills three core components. The first component is Pleasure, which refers to the pursuit of enjoyable experiences and positive emotions, essential for a fulfilling life, even if they are often transient. The second component is Engagement, achieved through deep involvement in activities that challenge an individual’s skills and abilities, closely related to the concept of “flow,” where one becomes fully immersed in a task, leading to a profound sense of fulfillment and satisfaction. The third component is Meaning, which involves finding purpose and belonging, connecting to something larger than oneself, such as family, community, or spirituality. According to Seligman, cultivating these elements fosters a more fulfilling and joyful life.
Flow Theory- it was developed by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, suggests that true happiness is attained through a state of “flow,” which occurs when individuals become fully immersed in activities that challenge their skills while providing clear goals and immediate feedback. This state is characterized by intense concentration, a sense of control, and intrinsic enjoyment, leading to deep satisfaction. Key conditions for achieving flow include a balance between challenge and skill, clear goals, immediate feedback, and high concentration. Csikszentmihalyi posits that regularly experiencing flow can enhance happiness and life satisfaction by fostering a sense of accomplishment and mastery, emphasizing the importance of engaging in activities that induce this optimal experience.

fields in positive psychology — Characteristics of Flow State

Happiness Across Lifespan

1. Happiness in Early Life (Childhood to Young Adulthood)

Some important developmental changes that influence happiness in early life include factors like-

Emotional Regulation- Children develop the ability to manage and express their emotions effectively as they grow. This skill is critical for fostering happiness, as children who can regulate their emotions tend to experience fewer negative emotions and greater overall life satisfaction (Thompson, 1994).
Social Connections- Positive relationships with parents, peers, and teachers are foundational to happiness during childhood and adolescence. Supportive and nurturing relationships foster emotional security and resilience. Research indicates that strong attachments in early life contribute to better emotional outcomes, helping individuals navigate social complexities later in life (Bowlby, 1969; Lyubomirsky & Layous, 2013).
Attachment Styles- Bowlby’s (1969) Attachment Theory emphasizes the significance of secure attachments with caregivers in promoting emotional well-being. Children with strong attachments exhibit better emotional regulation, leading to higher happiness levels throughout their lives.
Role Confusions- According to Erikson (1968), successfully navigating the identity vs. role confusion stage during adolescence is vital for long-term happiness. Those who establish a clear identity are more likely to experience greater life satisfaction and emotional stability in adulthood.

Most college alumni have fond memories of their college days (Baumgardner, 1989, 2001), as this period is often recalled as a time of less responsibility, more freedom, and greater enjoyment compared to the world of work. While full-time employment can certainly bring its own sense of satisfaction, few alumni describe their jobs as “fun!”

In hindsight, many view their college years as some of the happiest times in their lives. Interestingly, surveys reveal that people commonly assume adolescence and old age are among the most unhappy and least rewarding stages of life.

The teenage years are often characterized as a period of “storm and stress,” while old age is typically associated with declining incomes, social disengagement, and health issues. However, research challenges these long-standing beliefs, showing that adolescence is not inherently unhappy when compared to other age groups.

Percieved Unhappiness in Early Life

Young adults often perceive their happiness as lower than it truly is due to a phenomenon known as affective forecasting, which refers to the difficulty people have in predicting their emotional responses to future events (Wilson & Gilbert, 2003).

This overestimation is attributed to impact bias, where individuals narrow their focus on specific events, neglecting other aspects of their lives that may mitigate the emotional impact (Wilson, Meyers, & Gilbert, 2001).

Additionally, immune neglect plays a role, as people often underestimate their resilience and ability to cope with adverse experiences (Gilbert et al., 1998). As a result, when anticipating life changes, young adults may overlook their capacity for recovery and adaptation, leading them to perceive their happiness inaccurately.

Another phenomenon explained by Schkade and Kahneman’s concept of the focusing illusion. This cognitive bias leads individuals to overemphasize certain features—such as weather or dorm conditions—when assessing life satisfaction, often neglecting more substantial elements like social relationships and financial stability. The isolation effect further clarifies this tendency, as students prioritized visible differences while overlooking shared, meaningful factors.

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2. Happiness in Middle Adulthood (40s and 50s)

Some important developmental changes that influence happiness in middle adulthood include factors like-

Work-Life Balance- balancing family responsibilities and career ambitions can create significant stress, as individuals grapple with competing demands from work and home life.
Relationships- strong, supportive relationships with family, friends, and partners are essential for emotional well-being. These connections provide love, support, and a sense of belonging, which are crucial for overall happiness.
Purpose and Meaning- engaging in meaningful activities—whether through work, hobbies, or volunteering—gives life direction and significance. Feeling that one’s life has purpose can greatly enhance happiness and satisfaction.

U-Shaped Curve Theory and Decrease in Happiness

Blanchflower & Oswald (2008) gave the U-shaped curve theory that highlights the change in happiness across lifespan. This theory posits that happiness tends to be higher in young adulthood, decreases during middle adulthood, and then rises again in older adulthood.

Some reasons for this could be-

Increased responsibilities- work pressure like demanding careers, job insecurities, and longer hours, leading to stress and burnot. Financial burdens like managing expenses like mortgages, children’s education, and retirement planning can create anxiety. Family obligations like caring for children and aging parents, leading to emotional and physical exhaustion.
Unmet expectations- Individuals may reflect on their lives and feel they haven’t achieved their goals or aspirations.
Life transitions- Experiences such as raising children, caring for aging parents, or dealing with health issues can contribute to dissatisfaction.
Psychological and Social Factors– identity crisis where the individuals may question their identity, leading to confusion and anxiety. Focusing on responsibilities can reduce social interactions, resulting in loneliness. Maladaptive coping strategies may develop, negatively affecting mental health.

3. Happiness in Late Adulthood (60s and above)

Some important developmental changes that influence happiness in late adulthood include factors like-

Transitioning into Retirement- retirement can be a significant transition that presents both opportunities and challenges. On one hand, individuals may face financial concerns related to savings and pensions. On the other hand, they often experience a loss of social roles that were integral to their identities, such as job titles or professional responsibilities.
Health Changes- the likelihood of developing chronic illnesses (e.g., diabetes, heart disease, arthritis) increases with age, requiring ongoing management and lifestyle adjustments. There may be a greater need for medical care, including routine check-ups, medications, and possibly long-term care services.
Social Changes- As older adults retire or lose peers, their social networks may change significantly. This can create opportunities for new relationships but also lead to isolation if not addressed.

Increase in Happiness

Contrary to common perceptions that older age is synonymous with unhappiness, research by Carstensen et al. (2003) indicates that many older adults experience an increase in subjective well-being, even in the face of physical health declines. This boost in happiness is largely attributed to improved emotional regulation and a focus on close, meaningful relationships.

Despite these challenges, many older adults report high levels of life satisfaction. According to research by Charles and Carstensen (2010), this satisfaction stems from reduced stressors, as the demands of work life are lifted, allowing individuals to focus on activities that are emotionally rewarding. Many retirees engage in hobbies, volunteer work, and spending time with family, which contribute to their overall happiness and sense of purpose.

Older adults often demonstrate greater wisdom, emotional regulation, and acceptance of life’s experiences. This wisdom encompasses a broader perspective on life, informed by a lifetime of experiences. Baltes and Baltes (1990) highlight that this emotional intelligence enables older adults to better manage stress and adversity.

Stability in Happiness Across Life Changes

Happiness or subjective well-being (SWB) can remain stable across life changes. Research shows that there are four main areas that influence this stability. These include-

Genetic Influences- Studies suggest that genetics play a significant role in determining emotional responses and long-term levels of happiness. Approximately 40-80% of variations in SWB are attributed to genetic factors. People seem to inherit a happiness “set point” that stabilizes their emotional responses over time.
Emotional Intensity and Balance- Research indicates that while younger individuals experience more intense emotional fluctuations, older adults exhibit steadier and less extreme emotional responses. Although daily emotional experiences might change, overall happiness remains stable as older adults focus on long-term satisfactions and maintain a balanced emotional life.
Positive and Negative Affect- The balance of positive and negative emotions is crucial for understanding SWB. Studies show that negative affect tends to decline with age, while findings on positive affect are mixed—some suggest it increases, others indicate a decrease, or no change at all. Overall, the relationship between age and affect is weak, indicating that age accounts for less than 1% of variability in emotional experiences.

Psychological and Social Foundations- Lastly, as individuals age, the foundations of their well-being, including relationships and meaningful activities, evolve. This shift contributes to the maintenance of SWB across the lifespan.

Conclusion

Happiness, or subjective well-being (SWB), is influenced by a complex interplay of emotional, cognitive, social, and psychological factors throughout the lifespan. From early life to old age, happiness is shaped by emotional regulation, social connections, life satisfaction, and the ability to find meaning and purpose.

Theories such as Hedonic Adaptation, Authentic Happiness, and Flow Theory offer insights into how individuals experience and sustain happiness. While external events may cause temporary fluctuations, research suggests that people often return to a stable baseline of happiness.

Across different life stages, challenges like work-life balance, health changes, and role transitions impact SWB, yet emotional resilience and meaningful relationships help maintain happiness.

Contrary to common assumptions, older adults often report higher life satisfaction due to improved emotional regulation and reduced stress. Thus, happiness across the lifespan is dynamic but generally stable, reflecting both individual and developmental factors.

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